This is a losing virginity song for sure. This song had a chance to be a great love song but the words chosen ruined it. I have heard women say it makes them turn the song off as most first love encounters are not like men seem to think they are. It can be a painfull sad, regretable and not pleasurable for women. To relive that moment, esp when it is done wrong and it is often done wrong more than we think. It should not be a 'too bad that's the way it is' moment. John you blew it.