To: yuciefan that is not what this song means not even close next time think before you write something down.
The True Meaning: This song by Ne-Yo means the true beauty of an independent woman someone who can do for them self and not worry about the next person helping them out all the time. The sexiness in a powerful woman that can take charge of any situation; that is looking to better herself as well as the people around her.
P. S. I love me some Ne-Yo so I should know & his songs are so inspirational.