I can sympathize with you all as I understand what you're going through. When you've had a 9+ year realtionship with someone it's more than being married. And though we never did, I felt like going through a divorce when he said that was the end of our road. It's been two years and to this day it hurts and I'm crying. He's getting married pretty soon and he's very happy. But though you and I are going through this, understand that there is a reason for everything. God is in control of your life and mine. And as this song says. "in time" we will be better. This is to help you and I grow. Don't give up on love. Much less God's love, becuase that is the perfect love.