Men that beat the woman that they " love" don't really " love" them at all. All they are doing is trying to show you that they really don't care about you but hey know that you won't leave them because you have no one else to go to. If you are a woman in an abusive relationship you need to get out as fast as you can. Stay with a friend, your parents or something just get away from the guy. And that is my two cents. Good song by the way!