This is a perfect example of an abusive relationship. There will be times that you will turn your life around or change a few things or ugali that you have or youve been used to make things work with someone that you fell in love with, or someone you have to be with and grew to love; but this person turns into this inconsiderate, abusive b*tch that instead of being grateful that you changed, she will be all yabang and say, dapat lang you changed. While on the other hand, she will be used to having you sacrifice things for her, until it reaches the point that she will try to strangle you and get bossy everytime. And when you crack and let all hell break lose, she will take that as a justification for her to fool around and look for a more 'stable' and 'consistent' man that will 'understand' her. Such bullcrap.