This song means women can survive with no one but themselves. They don't really need a man because they know if they had a man, they can mess up or somethin'. But still, if we don't need a man, a man needs us so still we should be nice to them. Not every guy wants to really abuse your rights! They still need respect! And we should respect each other, black, white, g** or tomboy they are still people that need respect! But if you don't really want a man then follow your heart!