Omg! You girls are funny. Try this. Being married for 15 years and not to your true love, but you still love your husband. Even though you still love your husband, you start to think of divorce due to things that have happened. Then your true love enters back into your life but is unattainable because one - he's on the other side of the country (literally, he's on the southern Atlantic coast and I am in Alaska) and two - because he's married. That's the same as losing him all over again and then losing out on my husband at the same time. Poignant isn't it? This song makes me cry everytime I hear it.