My meaning of this song is about a girl who was heart broken over her loss of her X. He hurt her and now due to that its hard for her to love but she is trying but she will never give her all again to any man. The way he hurt her will never go away but she has learned to move on with these scars and now that she has learned her x wants her bk. It has brought bk a lot of hurt just like when they split but she has learned she can't go through it all again. She has told him they will never be again because she has got stronger no matter if she may still care for him.