I feel that it means that you are in a relationship or maybe the woman on the side and they don't see you the same anymore and you are tired of asking questions and getting no answers. So now you are done you have no more left in you and you are going to change your life and put youself first and free yourself of all the bullshit. Chang is good and I can say that I truely feel this song and can relate to it cause I am in the process of changing my life for me and I'm not taking the backseat to nothing and nobody I'm gojng for mine. Thanks Jennifer this song is a great encourgement to me I was just thinking of a song to fit my change that's about to come and I ran across this song on your myspace playlist and I bought it as a ringback tone so when he call he can hear whats going down with me it wont be no need for me to answer the phone and say nothing cause the song says it all.